I was racing against the clock at Wednesday night’s Carroll ISD school board meeting. Here is the full text of what I originally prepared: My name is Stephanie Drenka, and I graduated from Southlake Carroll Senior High School in 2004. Some of your children may have been lucky enough to have my…
Where is Jue Lee Hong?
Earlier this month, I went on an expedition to find the burial site of Jue Lee Hong, a Chinese laundry proprietor, whose tombstone was the last remaining Chinese grave marker in Greenwood cemetery. The story of Chinese laundrymen in Dallas was a huge part of my @DallasTRHT research, and I wanted to pay respect…
Bob Jones & His Family Deserved Better
John Dolford “Bob” Jones was the son of a White man named Leazer Alvis Jones and Elizabeth, a Black woman enslaved by Leazer. When he was a child, he helped freedom seekers escape slavery by hiding them in a cave. Following the Civil War, Bob was granted freedom by his father and…
Making Lemonade
When my marriage ended, I bought a Meyer lemon tree for my apartment. I knew it would be strange to live alone again. Having something to take care of would be a good way of channeling the extra time and energy. The vision of my new routine was crystal clear. I would…
Grieving as an Asian Adoptee
“You may feel like your children are protected from this or perhaps have never experienced any form of racism or discrimination (that’s awesome, and I *hope* it continues). But you cannot deny or ignore these things that have happened, because it makes it all the more difficult for people to take hate…
Southlake Carroll ISD: Pass The Cultural Competency Action Plan
My prepared remarks for the Southlake Carroll ISD school board meeting tonight: I won’t waste my brief time sharing all of the painful memories I experienced as a young person of color in this school district. You have made it abundantly clear that your interests are not in protecting marginalized students and…